If you’re dating or are married to someone – and you’ve been together for a while – the thought “Is he/she cheating on me?” has probably crossed your mind once or twice (or more frequently).
At this time of year, when it takes the sun longer to wake up, your partner may stay at work late more often, don’t respond to your text messages while he or she is attending an office holiday party, or return home smelling of a new perfume…
You seem like a snow would cover the ground during the holidays, your marriage may be covered in infidelity and secrets. How do you make that snowmelt away to find out if your partner is cheating on you?
The answer is: hire a private investigator. The best (and worst) thing about holidays is that there’s a higher chance of catching a cheating partner in the act. Also, cheaters tend to leave an even uglier trove of evidence during the holidays (as their infidelity is likely to involve alcohol and carelessness).
Our Salt Lake City private investigatorEmy A. Cordano reveals the secret: private investigators tend to get more calls during the last month of the year than during three months of summer.
What if your suspicions of infidelity are NOT baseless?
You deserve to have a loving partner who would warm you up with their passion and care this holiday season. It’s going to be a cold winter, so you may want to make sure your partner is not cheating on you (if he/she is, you’ll most likely not receive the desired warmth).
It’s only natural to suspect your partner of infidelity, as even healthy relationships may be full of jealousy and suspicions. But what if your suspicions are not baseless?
What if this coming Christmas and New Year is your chance to finally uncover the hidden truth and start your life anew on January 1, 2018?
Whether you want to obtain peace of mind and make sure that your partner is not unfaithful or want to solidify your suspicions with evidence, hiring a private investigator during the holidays may be the best Christmas gift that you can give yourself (think about it: no more sleepless nights and heartaches).
Speaking from my own experience in working as a private detective to determine whether or not spouses or partners engage in romantic or sexual activities outside the marriage or relationship, I can say that if you believe that your partner is cheating on you, he/she probably is.
Fact: our Salt Lake City private investigator Emy A. Cordano has noticed this trend: over 80% of women who suspect infidelity is right, while 50% of men also have correct suspicious when it comes to unfaithfulness.
Should you hire a private investigator during holidays?
But should you hire a private investigator out of the blue and for no reason at all during the holiday season?
It would be a smart decision to seek the help of a private detective during the holidays, which is proven to be one of the most popular times of the year for spouses and partner to be unfaithful.
However, prior to hiring a private investigator, make sure you:
- Do not confront your partner until you have evidence (don’t scare them off just yet, as this may make a private detective’s job more challenging and complex);
- Look for signs of cheating. While at this stage you may not have solid proof like pictures, videos, or catching your spouse or partner in the act, look for subtle signs.
What are the subtle signs of cheating?
Our private investigator Emy A. Cordano has outlined a list of signs of cheating that you must look out for before hiring a private detective to find hard proof of infidelity:
- A sudden lack of interest in intimacy or sex;
- Coming home late;
- Frequent nights out;
- Never leaving the phone unattended around you;
- Hiding the phone whenever they get a call or text;
- Blocking the computer or phone with passwords;
- Erasing internet history too often;
- Jumping from their seat when you walk into the room unexpectedly (and starting to do something active on their
- phone or computer as you approach);
- Whispering on the phone;
- Unexplained receipts;
- Returning home with the smell of a new perfume.
In most cases, these signs of cheating may mean that your partner or spouse is unfaithful and have something going on outside your marriage or relationship.
If you have noticed any of the above-mentioned signs of cheating, don’t hesitate to consult our private investigator to know your best course of action. Never confront a cheater on your own, especially if you’re a woman and your spouse/partner is a man, as many cheaters may get violent.
Call our Salt Lake City private investigator today at (801) 901-8159 or send us an email via this contact form to get a legal initial consultation.